beginning of the week.

It's a brand new day of the week.

I'm blogging at home right now.

Last night, 4mei told me about 6mei's blog. And i had just read 6mei's blog. she complaint about my da-jie. And from her entry, she doesn't sound happy with herself being at home. Sometime i do felt that communications breakdown between me my siblings. It's because we'r older, and we experienced before, thus when we do give advices, it may not be pleasant but we meant well. If u chose not to heed the advice, then u gonna bear the consequences yourself.

Don't always think that we like to nag at you. Nagging requiries alot of energy one lei............

I agreed with 6mei, that my da-jie is real selfish person. She can use our stuffs, wear our clothes, etc. But we can't use / wear hers. What logic is this!?! SELFISH logic.

Her bedroom is like a refugee's corner. Everything is kept inside her room. From toiletries (shampoo & conditioner & hair treatment), She actually buy foodstuffs ( can drinks, biscuits, bread, etc) and kept inside her bedroom. SO afraid that others' would eat it if it was kept inside the fridge. AND, that is the reason why her bedroom breed cockroaches!!!!

I was laughing when i type what is kept inside her room lor!!!! alot of things ah!!!!

One funny joke to share. Previously, gardenia (i don't know if spell correctly) bread has got promotion going on. Accumulate like 3x gardenia bread bag and can exchange for a loaf of raisin bread. we brought the gardenia bread and i could see empty bread-bag hanging behind the kitchen. Then, one day, i went into my da-jie's room. i saw a loaf of raisin bread on the table. I told 4mei, wah lau, bread also want to keep inside ah... 4mei says; please lor, that one is we buy gardenia bread & she go exchange for raisin bread one. and then now keep inside her room. me; issit...... never mind lor, let her fat.....

2days later, i saw the raisin bread sitted at the kitchen table top.

I told 4mei, must be she can't finish it and gonna expiry already then she bring out lah.........

we laughed...................................................

I really don't know why she behaves this way. In fact, my relatioship with my da-jie wasn't in very good terms. monkey & pig cannot click.

If u want people to respect you, you should at least show & give people respect first.

Your statue as a eldest sister doesn't mean you are always right. Neither it means you can get what you want. You needa BIG mirror to reflect your own behaviour & attitude.

You reap what you sow.

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