Friday, am not working tonight. My health is deteriorating. i really need to buy tonics for myself. glad that i've a mummy whose's a great cook. she would often cook herbal soup for us....
Yesterday worked at sabai. there's fight again... well, none of my business anyway. Then went supper at river valley rd with eileen. been freaking the long time since we lasted had supper together lor... ever since the opening of our shop, we hardly or never went shopping together le...
This sunday, gathering with buddies. i've make reservations at Coca steamboat @ takashimaya. They served nice soup base. :) Nicole hasn't confirm her attendance...
Wednesday i'm at shop. Received sms from jinhui, then i called up nicole & asked if she would be joining us on sunday, she don't sounds happy lor.
Then at night, while taking mrt home, i thought over the smses sent between them to each other... n i sms-ed Nicole & Jinhui...
Hi, i'm sending this sms to u; zhen & jinhui. what's done cant be undone. marriage is a happy occasion. every1 of us including both of u would wan2 attend both wedding oso. but since everything's said & cant postpone or so, we shall proceed ahead. let's not feel upset. we'r good buddies ma. we oso wan u to happily prepare for ur wedding. true friends dun come easy. i treasure very much of tis friendship. i believe u do too. :)Because, i felt this is not a very serious problem. think over how we used to hang out together. since underage clubbing, chalets, studying together at NP, to countless of birthday celebrations... close to 9years of friendship... Issit worth it to feel angry over this wedding date ma? Why don't she think the other way? U two can happily do your preparations ... blah blah blah.... i don't know how to explain. but i just feel it can be a happy ending, and not feeling angry with him. frankly speaking, he need not ask for your permission to fix the date... each have each said & difficulities. Why not celebrate together lei................................
Even me & yan also can talk things out. everyone always says good friends can't do business together. as they'r bound to fall out. well, guess we've proved them wrong. Yes, i don't deny that at times we would have disagreements. but we talked things out in nice way. shared our views & opinions. even twins don't have the same frequency lor. But still, i guess there would still be some dislikes or so... everyone thinks differently.
For my own, i would complaint out. Because saying out of my heart makes me feels better. I guess woman are all like that bah... I would tell my listener that i'm voicing out my own complains, and not pin-point this person. because afterall, it's my views & not discrimating this person to my listener. i wouldn't want my listener to think likewise of that person. As this would be very unfair. Because my listener merely listen to my complains and they don't know the exact whole picture too.
That's explain why i tend not to believe people easily, towards certain people. If things turn ugly in a way, let it be. I would still take them as friend. it's a hi-bye-smile friend. I wouldn't take them as invisible when i see face-to-face with them. Afterall, i really do know them. Not that i'm two-sided or i wana make use of them lei... i just think that, still friends, and i find it no point to hate them or so. But i really don't understand human nature or character lei. Why must it be so complicated lei? sigh... i guess, for my own, i live happily can le.............................. that's the way it should be too!!!!
A news to announce... Eileen and i are splitting!!! sounds bad? nah..... others might think so. just like what everyone always says... good friends will split after doing business together. BUt, to their disappointment, we aren't splitting. We've different concept & style for our apparels. So, after this shop lease ends, we won't be continuing at this location. Eileen'll have a shop at the other side of FEP. do lookout for this shop. As for me, i won't be having one soon. Not at the moment, but in near future... Because i've alot more to do... I'll still be venturing into apparels. This time round, i'll cater for both Men & Women. So, guys.. this time u can support me by your actions already!! :) :)
You must learn day by day, year by year, to broaden your horizon. The more things you love, the more you are interested in, the more you enjoy, the more you are indignant about, the more you have left when anything happens.
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